Big Brother Naija star Tolanibaj has revealed that she is skeptical about getting married, saying that she is not sure if married people are genuinely happy.
In a post on Snapchat, the 30-year-old reality TV star responded to a male follower who admonished her to get married as soon as possible.
“I’m not convinced that married people are happy,” she wrote.
Her post has sparked differing opinions online, with some expressing understanding for her reason, while others were against it.
Those who support Tolanibaj’s view argue that marriage is a big commitment, and that it is important to be sure before taking the plunge. They also point to the high divorce rate as evidence that marriage is not always a guarantee of happiness.
Those who disagree with Tolanibaj argue that marriage can be a very fulfilling experience, and that it is possible to be genuinely happy in a marriage. They also point to the many couples who have been married for many years and are still in love.
Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to get married is a personal one. There is no right or wrong answer, and each individual must decide what is best for them.
Why is Tolanibaj skeptical about marriage?
Tolanibaj has not explicitly stated why she is skeptical about marriage, but there are a few possible reasons.
One possibility is that she has seen firsthand how marriages can fall apart. She may have friends or family members who have gone through divorce, or she may have witnessed unhappy marriages in her own life.
Another possibility is that she is simply not convinced that marriage is necessary for happiness. She may believe that it is possible to have a fulfilling and loving relationship without being married.
Ultimately, only Tolanibaj knows why she is skeptical about marriage.